September 8, 2009

Real Love.

Real Love is caring about the happiness of another person without any thought for what we might get for ourselves. Real love is unaffected by the mistakes and flaws of the people we love. When they give us nothing in return -- including graditude -- or even when they're thoughtless and inconsiderate, we're not disappointed, hurt, or angry, because our concern is for their happiness. Real love is uncconditional.

It's Real love when someone cares about our happiness without any concern whatever for themselves. It's Real Love when people are not disappointed or angry when we make our follish mistakes, even when we inconvenience them personally. Sadly, very few pf us have ever seen love like that.

Real Love is An Absolute Requirement for Happiness and True happiness is our entire reason to live. Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoiced with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perserveres. Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; when there are tongues, they will be stilled; when there is knowledge, it will pass away. For we know in part and we prophesy in part, but when perfection comes, the imperfect disappears. Real Love, exists when your strong tender feelings for the other are balanced by reason and deep respect. You care just as much for the other person's welfare and fulfillment as you do for your own. Judgements about the person are quite objective and rational. The two of you have many values and ideas in common. You share smilar goals and ideals. All these factors will probably be able to support and sustain a happy relationship over a long period of time. If you're infatuated, your emotions will be in charge. In real love, you reason is ruling your emotions. However, REAL LOVE and ROMANTIC INFATUATION are easily confusing people becayse they have on thing in common - strong feelings of attachment to the other person. Moreover, people in real love have some degree of infatuation and infatuated people have some degree of real love.

Are your palms sweaty, is your heart racing, And your voice caught withing your chest?
It isn't love, it's like.
You can't keep your eyes or hands off of them, am i right?
It isn't Love, it's Lust
Are you proud, and eager to show them off?
It isn't Love, it's Luck.
Do you want them because you know they're are there?
It isn't Love, It's Loneliness.
Are you there because it's what everyone wants?
It isn't Love, it's Loyalty.
Do you stay for their confessions of Love, because you don't want to hurt them?
It isn't Love, it's Pity.
Are you there because they kissed upi, or held your hand?
It isn't Love, it's being unconfident.
Do you belong to them because their sight makes your heart skip a beat?
It isn't Love, it's infatuation.
Do you pardon their faults because you care about them?
It isn't Love, It's Friendship.
Do you tell them every day they are the only one you think of?
It isn't Love, it's a lie.
Are you willing to give all of your favourite things for their sake?
It isn't Love, it's Charity.
Does your heart ache and break when they're sad?
Then it's Love.
Are you attracted to others, but stay with them faithfully without regret?
Then it's Love.
Do you accept their faults because they're a part of who they are?
Then it's Love.
Do you cry for their pain, even when they're strong?
Then it's Love.
Do their eyes see your true heart, and touch your soul so deeply it hurts?
Then it's Love.
But do you stay because a blinding, incomprehensible mix of pain and elation pulls you close and holds you?
Then it's Love.
Would you give them your heart, your life, your death?
Then it's Love.

LOVE VS INFATUATION

Infatuation is marked by a felling of insecurity. You are excited and eager, but not genuinely happy. There are nagging doubts, unanswered questions, little bits and pieces about your beloved that you would just as soon not examine too closely. It might spoil the dream.

Love is a quiet understanding and mature acceptance of imperfection. It is real. It gives you strength and grows beyong you - to bolster your beloved. You are warmed by their presence, even when they are away. Miles do not seperate you. You have so many wonderful little flims in your head that keep replaying. But near of far, you know they are yours, can you can wait.

Infatuation says " We must get married rgiht away. I can't risk losing them. "

Love says, " Be patient. Don't panic. Plan your future with confidence. "

Infatuation has an element of sexual excitement. Whenever you are together, you hope it will end in intimacy.

Love is not based on sex. It is athe maturatin of friendship, which makes sex so much sweeter. You must be friends before you can be lovers.

Infatuation lacks Confidence. When they're away, you wonder if they;re cheating. Sometimes, you check.

Love means trust. You are calm, secure and unthreatened. They feel your trust, and it makes them even more trustworthy.

Infatuation might led you to do things you will regret, but love never steers you in the wrong direction.

Love is an upper, it makes you feel whole. It completes the circle, it feels the empty space in your heart. Love is elevating. It lifts you up. It makes you look up. It makes you think up. It makes you a better person then you were before. If you have love in your life, it can make you up for many great things you don't have. If there is no love in your life, whatever else there is has a lot less meaning.
- @ tiltingthehourglass.blogspot.com
is it just me, not being to accept the changes all these while?

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